Updated: Nov 25, 2020
I highly suggest you give it a listen. You can find it a lot of places but I will link two in the post. It is on defining kinks. I am in Episode 3 of Season 1 (and a few of the joke episodes too) and will be a guest in Season 2. It has some of my favorite people and it is very informative. I hope you listen and enjoy it as much as I have!!!